Ahimsa for the Holidays

4da8995ccfcbcd860944b2b77dfa9078It all started with a beautiful Michael Khors bag in TJMaxx I just ‘had’ to have. (Yes, I know. I am working on my five Yamas, too.) As a admire the bag a woman, probably mid-thirties, snatches it out of my hands. No joke here. This woman literally takes the bag right out of my hands and proceeds to tell me, very defensively, that she was looking at this bag earlier and she just decided she was going to buy it. She stood there, waiting for me to fight back I think, but I honestly couldn’t find words. Really, I thought?

Granted I was a little upset. I wanted this bag. But after a ten second brain process I realized the humor in this situation. Here I was coveting this bag that I didn’t need, nor could afford, and feeling slightly guilty about my desire, when all of a sudden a stranger ‘steals’ it right out of my hands. It was like God came to earth in human form to say “No bag for you!!” I took it as a sign, and let them woman have the bag. (As if I was going to fight her for it?! I am sure some people would have. Good deal, people!)

Anyway, the point I want to make is that very often the holiday shopping season is littered with acts of violence, aggression, and covetousness. Does this sound appropriate for a season supposed to be about thankfulness, giving and life? Maybe it is sadly expected, but it doesn’t mean you have to spread it around like a disease yourself. It starts and ends with you.

“Non-violence is unconditional love, it is true compassion. We achieve that non-violence by learning to love and be loved; but how is it possible to love and be loved if we choose to escape or ignore some aspects of  ourselves?” – Unknown

Thoughts of guilt (buying too much), shame (buying more), resentment (crap, I didn’t have money for that), and disappointment all have a seed of violence within them. Now I am not saying boycott all holiday shopping, but perhaps after reading this you can take the values of Ahimsa with you to the mall this year.  When you buy something, do it with gratitude because you can afford it. Buy it with love for someone else.

This year don’t just buy gifts for family and friends,  give the gift of peace to the world. Minimize the violence you inflict on others and yourself.

Because of my ‘awakening’ at TJMaxx, I want to spread the gift of yoga and Ahimsa a little further this season. I am continuing the Unique Yoga Events special on at home personal yoga sessions – buy four, get one free – until December 31st. So perhaps this is an opportunity to buy a gift certificate for yourself or a loved one. Unique Yoga Events, LLC aims to bring yoga to more people outside the studio space. We work with children, senior citizens, couples, singles, people with disabilities by offering personalized yoga sessions in the comfort of your own home or studio rental. Everyone can benefit from yoga – especially during the holiday season!

Eat well. Give. And do more yoga.

Namaste.

Jamie L. Taylor, Founder Unique Yoga Events, LLC

uniqueyogaevents.@yahoo.com

973-820-8904

 

At Home Mini Yoga Retreat – Your Guide to Beating Holiday Stress and Weight

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It’s that holiday time of year again! Wish you could beat off the holiday weight? How about banish some of that holiday stress? We got you covered at Unique Yoga Events. Our personal yoga instruction is available through out Morris County, New Jersey. We work with all types of clients – couples, singles, children, seniors – right in the comfort of their own home!

These personalized at home classes are fantastic for anyone with physical challenges, looking to get closer with children or a spouse, or even just those wanting to perfect and understand the basics of yoga prior to hitting the studios. We believe everyone deserves yoga. Our unique in house yoga instruction is a great way to stay fit, stay relax, and stay inside this winter!

A Yogi’s Cleanse Story

Ever been on a cleanse? Try it. Cleanses are for all ages, body types and genders. Cleanses help eliminate toxins in the body, helping you to feel lighter, more alert, and in my case, happier! Yogi’s often participate in cleanses because it lightens the body and clears the mind.

And that is why I am writing today’s blog. I recently tried a new cleanse. To be specific, I took on the AdvoCare 24 Day Challenge. I am on day sixteen and I have never felt better! (I officially lost seven pounds, my mother a whopping fifteen!) Overall, my cleanse has helped me focus more on my yoga practice. I find that deep mediation is faster to achieve than before. My sustained energy has gotten my butt to practice more often, and my alertness has me moving through vinyasa flows with an intention I didn’t have before. My solution happened to be AdvoCare, but I believe any good cleanse can help bring you clarity and rejuvenate the mind and body.

So what is this challenge? The AdvoCare 24 Day Challenge consists of two phases. The first is the Cleanse Phase and the second is the Max Phase. The Cleanse Phase lasts ten days and has been my favorite part so far. It consists of taking three products – The Herbal Cleanse, OmegaPlex and AdvoCare’s Spark Energy Drink (all of these can be purchased separately, but come with your 24 Day Challenge Bundle) – and a healthy diet of lean meats, vegetables and fruits. I had to cut out dairy, carbs and caffeine (aka coffee, yikes!) from my diet, but it wasn’t as difficult as I thought it would be. After ten days I lost five pounds of toxins, fat, waste and whatever else was sitting around in my body.

Now I am on Phase Two, or the Max Phase. This is by far the hardest part of the Challenge, however I think it is completely worth it. This phase is meant to fuel the body into a lean, high metabolism, fat burning machine. Between the Metabolic Nutrition System, Meal Replacement Shakes and Spark I have definitely feeling the burn!

I would truly be happy to discuss my newly developed and successful snacks, meals, work outs and more! Feel free to email me at uniqueyogaevents@yahoo.com. Any advice I can provide my readers with to help them achieve what I feel is a blessing. Also, check out some of the recipes that I have been using throughout my cleanse. (LOVE the oatmeal cupcakes!)

– Jamie Taylor

AdvoCare Products

24-Day Challenge Bundle (This the complete first timer package I bought)

Herbal Cleanse (comes with the Challenge, but you can buy it alone)

Some of My Favorite Cleanse Recipes

Turkey Burgers

Chicken and Spinach Paleo Ravioli

Banana Oatmeal ‘Cupcakes’

Zucchini Chips

Teens Benefit From Yoga

Remember what it is like to be a teen? Everyone’s experience was different, but it is hard to argue that it wasn’t stressful at times. The more events we do and the more people we connect with, the more we could argue that TEENS NEED YOGA! But don’t just take our word for it…. Let’s discuss some benefits.

Self Confidence

It isn’t uncommon for teens to struggle with self-esteem or body issues. Bodies change and peer pressure and the media can make teens quick to judge themselves and others. Yoga helps foster a sense of love for oneself and the community. By withdrawing from the outside world and looking inward teens can begin to discover and value their minds in a new way. Teen Yoga also helps with self-awareness and highlights the body’s beautiful capabilities. This may be an eye opening experience for teens that are not athletic, as well.

Improved Physical Fitness

Let’s admit it – most of us DID NOT like participating in gym class, at least not in every activity. Much of that is still true for todays imagine driven teenage population. Add onto that computers, video games, TV and cell phones (they don’t even have to WALK to the phone anymore!) teenagers are more likely to be sedentary than a couple decades ago. Even for fit teenagers, like athletes, yoga provides a different form of fitness and health like stretching and mental wellness.

It is Non-Competitive

This is one of my favorites. There are not too many activities out there for teenagers that are not competitive in some nature. There are also teenagers that do not mesh well with competitive activities or sports. Yoga is a non-competitive environment that encourages individuality and personal growth.

Better Hygiene

So you may be scratching your head at this one….but it’s true. In yoga the body is considered a temple to be treated with respect. It sometimes happen, as teenage girls move through different hormonal periods, that reminders about the body’s cleanliness are needed. Yoga helps to instill these values in a positive way. Even for boys with messy rooms…messy rooms equal messy minds!

Relieves Anxiety

And finally, yoga relieves anxiety. With all these things to worry about…school, sexuality, friends, homework, activities…teenagers can often feel stressed. According to Yoga Journal it is found that yoga can reduce anxiety within teens. One teen yoga class a week can provide an overwhelming amount of benefits. 

124 Yoga Lane, Nirvana, USA – A Place to Call Home

It is commonly accepted that our teenage or adolescent years are when we blossom into the person that we are meant to be. That during these times we begin to see things in a more mature, educated manner in order to develop a more realistic view of the “way things are”. But for me, this mindful, life altering change is happening now, in my late twenties.

I owe this growth and realization to yoga. I have been practicing and teaching yoga for many years, but it isn’t until recently that I’ve honored the practice of yoga enough to truly adopt the theories into my thought process, and essentially my life. Yoga is not about the stretching, or funny poses (headstand, backbends, eagles…I still can’t do), but instead is about honoring the body and finding the place inside ourselves that we can call home.

I truly believe, upon talking to people, that a lot of the restlessness we feel in life is due to the fact that we don’t feel at home in our bodies. When things go wrong, or when things are turned upside down, we feel lost. This is a place we have all visited and can relate to – where do I go, what did I do wrong, what could I have done differently? But when we feel at home in our bodies, that is security. When things go wrong we are okay because we are home and we feel that love for ourselves, life and the people that decorate it.

Yoga teaches that no matter where you are or what your obstacles, you can find union – you can find yoga in your breath, body and mind. This is your home. Yoga is home. I have heard others call it an addiction, a fad, a religion, the easy way to exercise (hah!), but it has nothing to do with how my muscles look or how thin and flexible I am. In reality it is about building confidence, love, admiration and strength. Through Unique Yoga Events I am trying to share this truth.

Jamie Taylor | Owner and Founder | Unique Yoga Events, LLC

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FREE YOGA! Why Small Businesses Should Give Back

Today I posted on Unique Yoga Events’ Facebook wall that we would be holding a free pop-up class at a local state park today. Intrinsically I know that giving back it good. It is something we are taught as children. However, I don’t feel many businesses are involved in giving back to their communities. This is a shame considering that small businesses represent about 98% of all employers and employ 50% percent of the labor force. Imagine what we could accomplish if every small business in the state gave back to their community?

The reasons for giving back are abundant, but here are mine:

Appreciation of Community and Customers

Unique Yoga Events supplies the entire state of New Jersey with quality teachers, yoga events and more. We have many, many people to thank for this. If it weren’t for the local businesses that allow us to promote Wedding Yoga and Children Yoga in the stores, there wouldn’t be nearly as much awareness about these services. Our customers are a huge reason we remain successful as they refer us to their friends. I am also thankful for the family, friends and instructors of Unique Yoga Events that promote us. These free classes are an honorary tribute and thanks to these branches that make up our success.

Promotion of Yoga

One of the fundamental reasons for establishing Unique Yoga Events was the desire to provide yoga for everyone, despite age, gender or physical capabilities/limitations. Free classes encourage individuals to get out and experience yoga without risking the financial investment of joining a studio. Many of our complimentary events will be outside as well. And you know how UYE is a huge promoter of outdoor yoga!

Inner Satisfaction

I give back because it makes me feel good. And I like teaching yoga. Running the business prevents me from teaching as often as I would like, but by giving back I open up opportunities to meet the community myself and teach.

Spread the Love!

Finally, I give back because I really feel there isn’t such a thing as too much yoga. I’ve discussed the benefits of yoga in previous blogs before. Yoga promotes over well being while strengthening our minds and bodies. Who couldn’t use more of that?

My last thought for small businesses: Figure out what you have to give, who you are thankful for and GIVE BACK! What are you waiting for?

No More Wine and Yoga!

Okay, not necessarily. You can still have wine. And you can still do yoga. There is no ban. But at Unique Yoga Events we really enjoyed planning our Yoga in the Vineyard classes this summer! So much to the point, we are really sad summer is almost over (being that snow is unfriendly to a yoga practice). Not to fear, though! We are in the midst of planning new classes for next year. However, this summer UYE Yogis from all over New Jersey joined Unique Yoga Events for eleven Yoga and Wine Tastings. We are super thankful for all those that participated in these fun events. There really isn’t a better way to practice yoga than outdoors on a beautiful summer day (with wine!). We only have a few classes left actually, tomorrow being one. Don’t be afraid to come join us to ‘wine and unwind’.1010510_178252052351324_1106010687_n - Copy